Work or stay home

With fatigue and kids would you rather be a stay at home mother or work?

I want to stay home but I feel like a pressure to go back to work my relatives are over and not used to stay at home mother, telling me to get a job asap and put kids in daycare. I'm not ready, I have anxiety and I'm freaking out about this virus I look stressed having everyone opinion how I should be living.

How do you guys do it right now in this year? How is your homeschooling how do you balance work kids how do you get time to cook clean please don't say your hubby does it all lol whew okay now women who do majority of household duties how do you spend time with kids afterwards.