This child was planned but I hate being her mom! She’s 3 months old and hasn’t let her father feed her for more than 5 minutes since she was 1 week old. She acts like she is being murdered anytime he changes her diaper, tries to settle her or dresses her but when she’s on me she smiles and talks and stares at him. She’s like that with all men except for her 1 grandfather. Every day is a struggle, we are two parents both off work right now but she only lets me feed her, change her, bathe her, settle her, put her to bed. She doesn’t let him do ANYTHING without screaming so hard that she hyperventilates afterwards and I’m so tired of it. It’s basically as if I’m a single mom right now when really there’s 2 of us but only 1 is allowed to actually be the parent. We have tried skin/skin, he interacts with her everyday smiles with her and talks to her, shows her the toys, tries to walk with her (she won’t allow it for long). I wish there was something we could do to change this, sometimes she gets so bad screaming that I just want to rip my hair out and let her cry.