I live with my abuser, we have 3 kids together and I already regret having kids by him, I totally feel like he gets me pregnant just to have more control over me, especially since he doesn’t help me care for them or anything.

I’m due in November and I would really love to either A) Secretly not allow him to sign the birth certificate, and not give this baby his last name or B) Put it up for adoption without his consent.

Is it possible for me to do either, if so how do I go about it?

I genuinely regret the kids I already have with him and I do not want another mistake with him.

Thanks..