I AM A HOMO-FLEXIBLE

Ellie

Hey guys!

So I’m 17 almost 18, I came out to my family and friends 5 years ago stating I was a lesbian.

Ever since then I have been super comfortable with my label, there was just one thing that did throw me off.

Some of my friends are lesbians and we were talking about sex, I realised a lot of them are disgusted by the idea of a penis (which is ok! It’s not for everyone) the funny thing was, I actually like the idea of a penis, it turned me on, but I didn’t see myself as bisexual because I have no Romantic attraction whatsoever for men nor really sexual it was just the idea of a penis that I liked.

I soon realised that I think I could totally have sex with a guy and be turned on by it but not the guy himself, although the idea of making him feel good was fine.

as rather with a women I could feel romantically and sexually attracted. (Bsjsbdjdhd I love women sooooooo much)

I wasn’t sure if there was an actual thing for that, but I went looking and the closest thing I could find was a Homo-flexible

(Homoflexible refers to someone who is predominantly homosexual but sometimes sexually attracted to the opposite sex.)

Even though it isn’t that common, this definition feels right to me and I feel so happy to find a space that I feel comfortable in.