Hayden too feminine for boys name?

I had a very hard time coming up with a boys name my husband also liked. We aren’t really into modern unique names but more like older and less used names. Our daughter is Willa. Hayden is an older name but still felt sort of modern but don’t see it everywhere.

I know sometime people use Hayden as a girls name. As due date is getting closer I’m questioning whether I’m certain about this name, but when I “go back to the drawing board” I remember I didn’t like that many boys names to begin with.

Is Hayden too feminine? Middle name is undecided still, options include Benjamin, Dexter, Louis, Ray, Kenneth (not my fav but a family name), Frederick, michael.