So Im looking for opinions, advice idk. Anything really. I’m trying to understand why my husband is acting this way.

I’ve been married for 3 years. Lately my husband has been calling me a sociopath for the past 3 months. And the past 8 months have been rough. A lot has happened. We had a baby this past January. My son changed me completely. I’m head over heels for my baby. I got pregnant soon after again. We own a company together, so we’re loaded with work, and then I take care of my son, just me, then I was dealing with the pregnancy symptoms. I was very, very stressed out and when I’m like that, I’m just quiet, but very tense, I don’t eat, don’t have an appetite, I’m just on focus mode all the time. I don’t sleep. I was so tired and stressed out that I think that was the reason why I had a miscarriage. I just lost my second son 2 weeks ago. I Miscarried at 20 weeks. I’m healing, but as soon as I got home, he had me working on some stuff. Overall, I’m fine. But just because I’m a quiet girl on the outside doesn’t mean that I dont have feelings, because I do. I’m just more of the suffer alone type but I of course have feelings.

Anyways, he’s been calling me a sociopath whenever he gets a chance, almost all the time. I ask him why he calls me one and he says that because he’s trying to make realize that I am one. It’s like he’s trying really hard to convince me of being one. To the point where I start acting like one and then he’ll be like “I told you.” It’s like if he had me sitting me in a chair in front of him and telling me in my eyes “sociopath over and over again. Kinda like hypnotized, that’s just what I think of from how much he says it.

Ok, yes I’m antisocial but not like on a deep level, I just choose my friends wisely, but that’s always been me. I’m probably just different than what he’s used to. I ’m just a calm person, more quiet, serious face but I love laughing I can be loud, love having fun. But I know when and when not to be like that. And right now I’m just trying to make it through. And to be honest, him calling me that hurts me but I don’t say anything or when I try to fight for myself, he goes back to “see!! You’re a sociopath!, you’re crazy” He’s a smart man, good in psychology so I’m trying to understand why he’s like this.

I feel like he’s trying to find an excuse for something. And I’m fucking tired of it. I’ve been through a lot mentally and physically these past 8 months. I never say anything, but I’m so fed up with it. I need a damm break.