We have been married for 4 years. We have had arguments like most couples but nothing prepared me for this. We had talked about kids and both wanted one. Even tried for 14month! Finally happened and we were so excited. Then he tells me he has been thinking about it and wants to live separately. That he had been thinking about it for awhile just didn’t have the courage to say it.

I feel devastated and blindsided. Never would I had seen this coming. I would have never tried for a child. I’m not sure if this is a mid life crisis or having a child scares him. But I just feel like my life has been flipped upside down.