Blow jobs

I hate giving blowjobs because of my absolutely horrible gag reflex. I’ll suck on the head lol, but that’s all I can really do. I can’t even brush my tongue or stick my fingers in my mouth without gagging badly. I feel really bad about this, and don’t want them to feel like I don’t care about how they feel, because I truly do care, but I just physically can’t do it. I feel so inadequate to other women that can deep throat or even just give basic blowjobs. I know it’s not a huge deal, but what if I get with someone and that’s what they expect, and I can’t do it and they get mad at me. What can I do? Is there anything else I can do to make them feel good? Is there anyone else who has this problem?