My boyfriend who I have been with for a year wants to add anal sex to the mix. I had it with him 2x. The first time was not pleasant. It was not eased in with head, it was full speed ahead. He said " sometime you just got to push through it" Well I wanted to jam a cucumber up his ass so he can push through it.. Second time was better, but still uncomfortable. I be so worried I'm going to make him a snicker bar.Is there a trick to this? Any suggestions? All tips and tricks are welcomed...