Masturbation vs. Intercourse

My partner's sex drive is super low, almost non-existent lately therefore "alone time" has been the substitute, but lately it's like it only controls my urges but I still crave sex but maybe it's the intimacy that I'm missing? I've talked to him about it and he says he will try harder but honestly there's been no change. I've been having sex dreams about other people ( I would never cheat on him ) but I feel disgusting for it. Sex with him just isn't what it used to be either. There isn't any passion, no kissing, NO foreplay for me 😿. He makes me face away from him, and will not touch me in anyway prior. Again, I've talked to him but no change. Where do I go from here? Sorry it's all over the place.😔