Help! Orgasm!

Fuckkk meee! (Literally) Been with my SO for a little bit now, TTC. I’ve found it new and more difficult to orgasm . I used to be a pro at getting the deed done. As of late🤦🏾‍♀️😤.... it’s like digging a hole that never gets dug. I’ve tried masterbating... I know I’m wearing him out. I don’t want to play on my mans insecurities but SHIT the last 4 times I have no came! He’s done in less than 5 min. I know I know I have great ***** 😂😂😂😂 jk jk but omg guys help. Like it’s so bad I’m feeling the “blue balls”, why can’t I come?