Is it cheating ?

So I was talking to this guy ( we in the talking stage) and later on we started to date so One day out of nowhere I felt a vibe to grab his phone and I grabbed it and I was looking through it and I was seeing that he would tell other females that he loved them and called them baby and asked for nudes when we were talking I confronted him and he told me it wasn’t cheating because we weren’t in a relationship but I think it is

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