So me and my partner concieved while on birth control and we were both pretty shocked. It didnt take me long to come around to the idea but my partner is not interested whatsoever. The only time he's mentioned the baby is to grunt at the scan photo and ask when the due date is. I understand that hes not thrilled about it as it wasn't planned but I'm 17 weeks now and he still doesn't want to tell his parents. I dont want to go behind his back and tell them but I feel super awkward that they don't know. They are lovely grandparents to our other two and I feel like they will be annoyed that they are last to know. Not to mention that I'll be the size of a house soon and won't be able to keep it a secret