What whole hearted advice do you have?

Question

For a young woman what advice do you have?
This advice is all about what your thoughts are what wisdom you have
The advice can be about anything about Life, Motherhood, Love, Relationship marriage, Family about health. 
Keep it peaceful.

Answer

I say girls, women, ladiiiiiiiiieeesssss. If you are looking for a partner for long term relationship do your homework and collect the appropriate information about the person before you invest your body, mind, heart, soul. Check him out first. Study him. What are his life goals and ambitions? What steps is he taking to be/become financially stable- education, trade, career path? How is he when hes angry? How is he when he doesnt get his way? How does he treat people? Have you seen std test before engaging sexually? Hows his relationship with his family? Whats his mental and physical health like? Does he treat others fairly? Is he responsible? Is he lazy? Is he a womanizer? Has he been honest? What are his morals and values and does he practice them? Would he be a good and present father?
     So many girls end up “discovering” who a man is after they already invested their time, energy, effort, body, mind and even carry their seed only to see..... he a peice of “scum.”  If you do your homework.... most times than not you can find out if hes worthy of investing into.

Answer

Well.. I’d tell the younger me to not rush so much! Don’t grow up so quickly have some fun, but stay out of trouble. I would’ve loved if someone taught me that people can be shitty and don’t always have your best interests at heart. Don’t rush into getting married! (I’m happy don’t get me wrong but I got married at 20 and it was so much responsibility it boosted my anxiety to the next level!) 4 years later and I’ve learnt so much but it wasn’t always easy.
Be the best person you can be but enjoy life! 
As for motherhood, it’s amazing! Enjoy your babies while they’re only little because they grow up so quick :(

Answer

Don’t rush into anything in life. If it’s a major thing .. think about it. I’ve seen too many people jump on things way to fast and regret it or love a life they aren’t happy with.

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