Ok back story my husband and I met 12 1/2 years ago. I was 2 weeks into being 18 and he was a week away from turning 21. How we met was interesting. I had a crazy friend I kept taking back , she met a guy , my husbands friend in myspace. Both him and I were busy that day but for some reason we got talked into going that night to be the “wingmen”.

We are no longer friends with them due to crazy problems and drama. They didn’t go past the first date but here we are 12 years later married and still very much in love. Happier now than we ever have been.

Somehow we got on the topic of what ifs. I asked if we got divorced would he re marry or date. He said he wouldn’t re marry but probably would date. But he said if I died he wouldn’t take his ring off and never be with anyone else. Because he feels that I’m his one and only. That he wouldn’t ever fall in love again it wouldn’t want to 🥺 it’s sad but sweet. I’d want him to be happy no matter what.