My grandmother came to our house in July and the first day she saw me from her flight she was like you've gained so much weight, the whole week you shouldn't eat that when we would have meals together she would say I shouldn't eat at all.

I looked at her like stop it. She told my mom that I'm hateful that supposed glared at her and now she acts presumptuous stuck up said she won't talk to me that I look angry.

This is all because I'm overweight I am in shock I haven't seen her in years we have this virus going on and that's why she came to visit and she won't speak to me ignores me and locks herself in her room or stays in the kitchen so no one else can eat. She only talks to my mom when she gets off work in the evenings and weekends. My mom is furious tells me why can't I lose weight that I'm huge we weigh the same are the same size this all started soon as grandma gets here she tells her grandkids to call her by her name that she's not a grandma.

I'm beyond frustrated like she can talk to my mom that's the same weight but can't won't speak to me my mom literally told me to go on a walk to get out.

My grandma is literally the same size and my mom they say there old i cant judge them that I'm young I need to lose weight. Before the relative came over I was losing weight and on a fitness plan because of the stress I've been emotional eating.

Today I broke down crying in my room

She's been here since July only talked one week the other we don't talk don't eat at the same table etc.

What can I respectfully say to her how do we get over the drama she started

What would you guys say to a guest who is like this