“Was using my partners computer to browse the web, we are expecting a child soon so was online shopping. He has a Mac and his iPhone syncs when connected to internet , I never snoop I trust him so much.

However I sent him a link knowing I’d see it come up and could open on the computer. As it came through I opened the messages and it was updating and filing in new messages

And I oddly came across a message that asked hi where are you located to a random number , earlier in the year

He got no reply but then I found 2 more, and one chat involved the lady sending a message back with a photo of her asking when he wanted to come see her.

We were trying for a kid, seemed so happy. And now things between us are great.

I’ve don’t some research some of the numbers don’t exist anymore, and one number was linked to a flooring company ....

I’ve googled a lot and there’s lots of things on phones sending weird messages etc and the sender being unaware it’s happening,

Has anyone experienced this, where their partner had no idea? or can I assume that for a couple months he oddly messaged random people off a site (I can only guess) for potential meetings or what not 😔

This feels like a lot

I’ll be asking him about it to clear the air “

EDIT:: he’s also been organising engagement ring since March alongside my bestfriend ?!!!!!!

So it all seems odd