I need people to just STOP

Joy🍑 • Baby#1🍀bornOct’21

Stop asking when we’re going to have kids. Apparently, it’s not 🤬 up to us! 😤 and it’s all due to luck. Which we obviously don’t have.

Stop telling me “it’ll happen when it’s supposed to happen” or “it’ll happen at the right time” because that’s bull🤬 and it may not actually happen for me and that’s something I have to come to terms with

Stop telling me to “stop trying” because that is scientifically proven not to help at all and don’t they think I’ve already done that multiple times throughout this year and a half of ttc?

Stop giving me advice when I don’t ask for it!! It has been a year and a half. I have tried absolutely everything that we can afford to try. Especially hate when they give useless tips when they’ve never struggled with infertility or ttc.

Stop asking if they don’t actually care enough to really LISTEN to me and only give placating cliches that don’t make anyone feel better.

Just STOP 😤