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I'm sorry for your loss. Truly. I've been there twice and it is awful. But-That momma may have had a bad day. That toddler may have not listened at all for hours leading up to that dinner. That toddler amy have asked why 100000000 times to a nauseating level. That momma may have something terrible going on in her life. You don't know what is going on in that mommas life. If I've learned anything in parenting, it is not to judge a snapshot of someone else's life (unless obvious safety concerns are present). We are not all perfect parents all the time. I very much wish you get your rainbow baby soon. I am very sorry for your loss.
I hate this lady....
I had a mc on the 2nd. We went out to dinner on the 6th with some cousins and it was a great time! I knew I needed to get out but I also knew I was not okay yet. I sat at dinner watching a mom shove a phone in a little boys face because he wouldn’t stop saying fishy. There was a fish tank and I wanted so badly to take him to see them. I was so upset that she couldn’t get up for a couple minutes to see the fish with him, it broke my heart. I started tearing up sitting there but I quickly just told myself to snapped out of it. I KNOW I DO NOT KNOW WHAT WENT ON BEFORE THAT, but at that moment I want to yell at her with everything I had..yes on the drive home I did cry so much and my husband just held my hand and tried to comfort me. Now I just see parents get upset, reach for an electronic device, or even just ignore. IM NOT JUDGING i just get upset and think I wish I had my baby something to show for all this pain.
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Am
It’s harder than I thought it would be, but I know I need to deal with my emotions in a positive way!
Mi
I also know how hard it is not to judge. I always struggled with jealousy when someone I knew announced unplanned pregnancies- one night stands turned baby or purposely getting pregnant with a boyfriend of a month (both happened while I was TTC). It is hard. So hard. And so normal to get jealous. Hugs.
Am
Yeah that is why I just said I was not judging but it’s more a less of a jealous feeling.
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