I swear my SO is a bully.

We are remortgaging our house, so we needed all our bank statements. I have our own current accounts and one joint for the mortgage and bills...

So anyway, my SO is looking through my statement and can see my payments to the joint account which have the ref as "mortgage" (because obviously it's going to our joint account to pay the mortgage)

I have many other bank accounts which have different names, a few savings one. Anwyay he said why is the detail mortgage so I explain... 🙄

Anyways he decided to get really rowdy about it saying our broker will think you are paying off the mortgage... and i'm like.... no because we have sent our joint account details and shows its just payments to it!

He said it's a mess 🙄 he starts getting really angry at me so I start crying...

Albeit my best friends birthday today (she passed away) so I feel emotional anyway!

He then smashes our toothbrush holder and slams the bathroom door and starts pointing at me saying i'm fat and ugly! (i am sat on the toilet)

He said how I make him miserable & how he isn't happy in this relationship! Well fuck off then is all I gotta say about it! 🙄

How dare he! I swear he is a bully & likes to make me feel threatened.

Wonder if this is my opportunity to tell him to not bother sell the house and go seperate ways!?

I just don't know now!