I hate going to other family members house because I know everyone will want to pass around my baby. And it just drives my insane seeing him being passed around like that. The way people hold him, the way they ignore his cries when he is uncomfortable/hungry/tired, the way they’re pointing out things about him Ex. “Man he’s so chubby, he looks mad all the time, he’s bald, why is he so white, he doesn’t look like his dad” ugh. I was just told we’re going to a small gathering for my in-laws and that side of the family hasn’t met the baby yet so I’m beginning to have a anxiety attack and I so don’t want to go. I know my FIL wants his family to meet the baby. Im just so not ready for it and I’m dreading it already.