I’m going to go crazy
Please take the time to read this and consider my situation. I really am coming here to ask other adult women for help and what to do. Ever since I can remember my mom has been insane over me. From when I was young in school she would get close to all my friends and talk about me to them and pretty much break apart my friendship. I’m 21 with no friends at this point. Well at this point in my life I have a child 13 months old and I’m 30 weeks with another. I have a bf which she’s also tried to text and turn against me. We almost broke up over her too. My brother and his wife haven’t talked to her in like over a year and won’t let her even see their kids at all cause she did the same shit to them. I’ve dealt with a lot. But today I feel like I’m just done. She crossed my line. She always gets mad at me if I don’t text me within at least a hour. She will blow up my phone calling and texting. Then assume I’m mad at her for no reason. Well today I didn’t write back about my babies nursery stuff cause I was feeding my son lunch and was getting him ready after that to go for a swim outside. It was about a hour in a half. So she was blowing up my phone and I didn’t have time to
Talk to her at the time. So next thing you know my bf texts me cause we have a ring camera on our doorbell and she literally is at our house. I’m outside with my son playing in the backyard. Well I guess she rang the door bell and I was outside and I left the door unlocked today and she came in my mother fuckin house and came to the back and said “why aren’t you answering me!?” When I tell you my pregnancy hormones kicked they did. It’s one thing she blows up my phone but to
Barge in MY home uninvited and me not even knowing is beyond me!!!!! Then I yelled at her to get out and my son hates when I yell he cried and she took him and said “your hurting him!!!!” I didn’t even touch my son!!!!! I took him away and literally had to threaten to call the cops to get her out of my house!!!!! I called my bf for help! She wouldn’t leave my house!!!! I told her I was done. This has gone to far and I’ve dealt with it way to long. I will not have her keeping my son anymore for work. I told my bf either daycare or his mom can have him cause I work part time. She also held that over my head when I was pregnant with my son before. She said “good luck doing this without me cause you guys can’t afford daycare” I can go on and on all the things she’s done to me held over my head. But at this point I’m sure you guys get the point. So any advice here? Am I doing the right thing by distancing myself and my children from her ?
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