What was the first thing you and your significant other said to eachother?

Question

For those of you in healthy happy relationships I'm curious!
1. What did your first conversation sound like?
2. Where was it? 
3. Did you know then that they were "the one" or did it take time?
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“You’re the photographer right? You have to take a picture of us, we’re super important!”
I was photographing a mutual friend’s wedding. My SO and his best friend came up to me during the reception and that was his line. Eventually the groom (our mutual friend) saw us talking and dragged us out to the dance floor during the next slow dance. We talked the rest of the night and moved across the country together 6 months later. That was 7 years ago.

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I said “hi, I’m your new hostess” (we met working together. He was working before me).
Honestly he thought I was kind of a bitch. 😂😂 It had something to do with the tone of my voice? I guess? Lmao. I thought i was being nice... but anyways, I offered to give him a ride home, we exchanged numbers, hung out, and the rest is history.
I knew after about a week, he definitely did not 😂 but it’s been 4.5 years and we now have two kids, so I’d say he likes me. 🙃🥰

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I don’t remember all of it because it was like a paragraph. He messaged me on a dating website because back when I was in 3rd grade and he was in 4th we were “boyfriend and girlfriend” for like a week 😂😂😂😂 now 5 years later we are engaged and have a kid and he’s been an amazing rule model and soon to be step dad to my boys from before we got together (again? Lol )

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“Hi, I’m Mel. I’m the one here to meet you.”
We were at a staff holiday party that I was bugged to attend purely to meet him but then our coworker never introduced us. She was the hostess and was passed out in her bed by 10. I was trashed and finally introduced myself around 1 am when most people had left. We talked for a couple hours and I kissed him goodnight around 4 am when we finally left (went to our separate homes). We had an actual date a couple weeks later and are now married with two kids and still work for the same company.

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“Hey do you want to come see black panther with me.” (He was invited to go see black panther by another coworker of ours and he didn’t want to be there with just the coworker and the coworkers siblings. )😂 he asked me before our shifts started and I said yeah sure. The way he asked for my number I thought was pretty cool and we carpooled to the movies. After the movies we got food and talked until I had to go home (I lived with my mom and she had curfew rules even though I was 21). 
We’ve been together for two years and some months with a five month old son and we are engaged.

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We went to church together so we knew each other but we had never talked. He messaged me on Facebook one day and said “oh I see you like chiodos and asking Alexandria. Those are two of my favorite bands.” And from there we started talking and began dating a week later.

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It was at work! He was my new employee that I had to wait 2 months for and I was running in to my office trying to beat him to work. He was already there and I was trying to convince myself not to find him attractive because I was his boss and he had a fiancé and a whole life that I was not trying to ruin! .... we became work friends and turned out his relationship was on the fritz before he moved to town. Eventually it ended and we started hanging out.

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He actually didn’t talk or look at me when we first met. I thought he thought I looked disgusting or something because he would only look and talk with our mutual friend. Our first interaction happened when he messaged me on Facebook, “hope you have a good Christmas” 😂

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A mutual friend tried to hook us up. Told us to add each other on Facebook. When he finally messaged me I was SOOOOO sick with the flu and he was getting on my nerves being way too familiar like man you don’t know me calm down. So I blew him off for like a week. Then our friend convinced me to just try because apparently we were “the exact same person” according to him. We messaged for a couple days and decided he should come to my work so we could officially meet. Literally the first second I laid eyes on him I knew he was the one. The most beautiful man I had ever seen. I was in AWE of him. It was so crazy and intense. I was blushing and everything. Then a work friend came up to us and “jokingly” told him I was easy. 😂😂 we laughed. But we have been inseparable ever since. He’s snoring away next to me right now and I couldn’t be happier. ❤️❤️❤️

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I was on a one month trip to Costa Rica 14 yrs ago (senior in high school) to help build wells in an indigenous community in the mountains. He was a translator for another team there but came to our talent night because he was best friends with our translator. I saw him wearing a MAE hoodie (super small band at the time, I was obsessed with and blown away that he heard of them all the way in Costa Rica) and he had the most beautiful teeth I’ve ever seen. Like sparkling white. Kind eyes. I asked him to play me in a game of table hockey and I won. I asked him for a picture with me and his name and he took one and then I turned the camera to my friends and said “I’m coming back in a year to date him, he’s going to be my boyfriend and I’m going to marry him.” He blushed... and I did just that. Went back after graduation and dated him and eventually married him 5 years later. He is literally the kindest person I’ve ever met. The best father to our 3 beautiful mixed babies. A complete hermit. A hard worker. And he still takes care of his gorgeous teeth 😂 I love love love him so much!!!

What was the first thing you and your significant other said to eachother?

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