Secrets to happy marriage?

Question

I see some husband's so in love with there wives its a look of respect.
I notice how those husband's they care about the wife are invested. 
You know with life and stresses not everyone looks like they did at there prettiest there's aging, stretch marks, weight gain, sun spots etc. Not looking like a sports illustrated model and the husband remains faithful.
I've seen how there's trust in those relationships and communication. 
I've seen the small stuff husband's do for there wives to show there love. I see those couples that have been invested in the relationship years make it to death due us part the commitment its something awestruck. 
What would you tell your younger self about marriage ?? 
How did you trust your husband if he had to go on trips alone, his social media accounts, his cellphone, coworkers and women. How did you have trust. 
How did you trust talk handle share finances
How did you make time for each other 
How did you keep him interested in the bedroom 
How did you keep it from getting boring 
How did that man choose decide to love remain loyal
How did you meet your husband 
How do you make that step to marriage 
What advice to having a successful marriage, the relationship lasting?

Answer

You probably didn’t mean it that way but I don’t like how your post is focused on the husband. Like keeping your husband happy or what you can do to keep your husband faithful to you. ￼There is nothing you can do to keep a man, keep him interested in you, or keep him from being unfaithful to you￼. I have been in two long-term relationships. The first was with my ex who was my fiancé￼￼￼￼, highschool sweetheart, father of my first baby. And the man I am with now who is my husband that I had two more kids with. 
What i have learned from these relationships is that there is no real secret. You just have to find a partner that actually wants and respects you. It’s all about respect. ￼￼My ex didn’t respect me. He loved me in his own fucked up way but he didn’t respect me. He cheated on me, he hit me, he put me down, made me feel bad about myself, and was just overall toxic and abusive. And none of that was my fault. I catered to him and he still treated me like crap. 
My husband on the other hand is the nicest, most respectful and goofy man I have ever met. We have had two kids together and he treats my first as his own. We share the workload with the kids, housework, etc. He’s never made me feel bad about my body during pregnancy or after. Has never given me reason not to trust him, and is just not the kind of guy who would ever cheat. He’s never called me names, when we argue he doesn’t say hurtful things. And if you ask him why it’s because he says he respects ￼me too much. Just like I respect him. Its a two way street. 
In the end you can do anything and everything for a man and vice versa. But if someone wants to cheat they’re going to cheat. Whether they’re on a work trip or still home, have social media or not, or have female friends or not.

Answer

I would marry a smart guy who has self control. They need to understand that the relationship they have invested in for so long should be preserved even if you go through rough patches. And they should also have control over their desires and not too impulsive, so they can handle being attracted to other women but walking away.

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I thought I was in a happy relationship but I was so wrong .. my baby’s dad is married and apparently he tried to live two life’s. He lied to me and the wife . She forgave him, they have no kids. Not sure how can you pass your husband cheating for 15 years.  but that shows that men don’t care if your a good wife or girlfriend.

Answer

I think a lot of times that love and respect and trust grows over time. It comes with maturity, spiritual, emotional and just getting older. Some of us have to live through rough times before this is more fully developed. Of course there are some outstanding young men but many a husband grown in these traits over time.
It does help to also have a involved, affectionate relationship, some behavioural boundaries, trust, respect, love and dare I say it submission on the wife's part.
A husband who feels respected and appreciated often recipricates and becomes more loving.
It also helps if both spouse or at least one prays for each other. 
 (of course there are some times where abuse is a factor and in that case the wife needs to keep her self and children safe, and may need to work/pray for the marriage from a distance)

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