I’ve just cheated on my husband with his brother, who he always said he didn’t trust with me.

How do I approach this without hurting him anymore then I have already?

EDIT

Hi I don’t no if a man is supposed to be on here but Iam the husband that my lovely wife cheated on. She told me what she did and well it did not go well she went on to tell me she felt so bad she wrote on a ladies group app she has and considering the phone she was on was the phone I bought her (which I have now because my wife deserves nothing from me) I thought I would try find this sincere heartbroken post she wrote which now reading isn’t that sincere or heartbroken.. I thank you lady’s for your kind words to her and don’t worry she and the guy that was my brother are gone and I’ll be ok.

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