I need advice!

Amanda

Hi! So I need advice on my current relationship. I was with my ex husband for 8 years- he cheated on me and basically left me with doubting anyone I go into a relationship after him. My insecurities has really put a strain on my current relationship and I’m not sure if I’m overreacting or how would anyone else feel about this.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and since then he’s only ever posted about me twice on social media. He doesn’t post hardly ever but since we have been together and he’s posted, it’s never about me. He said “you post pictures of us all the time so I figured I didn’t have too”. Idk I guess I get hurt that he doesn’t and it makes me feel like he’s doing it so females think he’s single. I’m listed on his profile as being in a relationship with me and all the pictures/posts I tag him in are on his wall but is this something I should be concerned about?

Not only the picture thing that bothers me but I have noticed he is always adding “attractive females” on FB and is constantly liking females selfies. I told him it bothered me and he said he wouldn’t do it anymore but since then he still does it, thinking “I won’t see them”. I don’t like other guys selfies out of the respect for him but he obviously doesn’t feel the same way.

Am I totally overreacting or is this something I should be concerned about?!

I appreciate any advice 😁