I’m 22 weeks pregnant and been so stressed and depressed. I’m having another baby with my daughters dad and he wants absolutely nothing to do with her( the baby) which I have no problem with. It does hurt because I understand the pain it causes a child to be without their dad. Its damaging. I am choosing to change my daughters last name so her and the baby will both have the same name. But I also don’t want to send my daughter to her dads anymore because I feel like her shouldn’t pick and choose who he wants to parent. It hurts me more then him because I know the pain my kids are going to go through and I don’t want that but I don’t want my baby to feel like her dad hates her and only loves her sister because he wanted her and not the baby. Him and his family begged me to have an abortion and offered to pay all the costs but I couldn’t do it because emotionally and mentally I couldn’t handle that loss. He has another girlfriend and is saying he’s doing so much better in life and always manages to belittle me and talk down on me despite how “mature” he is. I don’t want my daughter to spend the weekends with him anymore but I also don’t want to seem like the bitter baby mama. Any advice