WHAT DOES NOT TRYING MEAN?!?

Jen

We all hear those people who say “it happened when we weren’t trying!” ... can someone please explain what this means? If you know you want to get pregnant aren’t you always trying?!? Does not trying mean mentally not thinking about it? Does it mean not <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android">tracking ovulation</a> and having sex whenever? how does one consciously NOT try? Someone please explain as I’ve just about had it hearing this 😩