Tips for Virgins! What I wish i knew!

I recently had sex for the first time about a month ago and i thought i’d share somethings nobody ever told me.

First- it doesn’t just go right in... it took at least 5-10 minutes(maybe more) to put it in. and don’t be afraid to help guide it in!!

second- i feel like you won’t be super wet your first time... i was until it was time to put it in and then i got a little nervous. but as he keeps going you’ll be wet.

it hurts! i won’t lie... imo it was the worse pain i’ve ever felt. but it won’t kill you... it me it feels like a huge pinch mixed with a stinging sensation. BUT I PROMISE IT ONLY HURTS FOR LIKE FIVE MINUTES! you’ll survive. it lasted for about 15 minutes but for majority of the time it felt pretty good.

-also... you might bleed. i did... and awkwardly enough he was the one he told me i was bleed LOL! i only bleed during the act, and didnt at all the rest of the night until about four days later i had some spotting.

and the most important one...it’s not a life changing or life altering decision.( atleast for me) all i can say is trust the person you’re with, go at your pace, and know that it won’t define who you are.

Have fun and be safe!!