3 month sleep issues and emotional mama

My son turns 3 months in a week and this week we have been having serious struggles with getting him to take naps and go to bed at night. His first nap he is a champ and sleeps so well and goes down easy but after that his naps are so hard and most of the time I have to be holding him or he won't sleep. I try to put him down but he either wakes up instantly or in 5 min. We had 3 days where he was awake for 9 hour stretches. No matter what I did. I feel like a horrible mom and have been exhausted and sobbing over the little patience I have trying to get him to sleep. I don't know why but I just get so frustrated trying to get him to sleep. What can I do? Does anyone else have these sleep issues. Is it a funk or a growing thing and it will pass soon. I just hate seeing him so sleepy and nothing works and I lose it and end up overwhelmed and bawling. Thank you in advance. Sorry for the long vent.