Advice from wives and mothers

Brittany

Hey girls! So I am engaged and I am kinda worried about being a good wife.we are such a great team but since my parents and his parents or anyone who was married in my family failed at their marriage, it’s hard for me to see a good marriage within me and my partner...I guess I would love some advice from you experienced wives out there

Also we have no kids and didn’t plan on having kids but now he kinda wanna explore the possibility of a child...BUT IM AFRAID OF THAT TOO! Like what if my child hate me or is closer to my partner than me and don’t want anything to do with me? Ugh idk I think I’m jus freaking out for no reason because clearly my fiancé thinks I’m good enough to even want to have a child with me and to marry me.