I bought a diaper bag for my first baby but I found that I honestly never used it, I would just put it all in my tote bag.. now with baby #2 I’m thinking of just buying the same tote but larger but am open to using another baby bag. Just don’t really like the whole back pack/bulky look. Do you guys recommend any sites to look at? I was looking at some of the designer baby bags but thought it would just be ridiculous to spend so much on a bag I might not use!