Skin problems after waxing HELP PLEASE

Hi I get a lot of red bumps, pimples, boil on my vaginal and inner thighs after wax. It does not happen right after it but after 15 20 days when the hairgrowth is again forming. I tried pricking the pimple and a hair folicle was stuck. Im so irritated and uncomfortable my thighs are ruined my vaginal skin is getting red with scars. What to do? I keep myself super clean and hygenic but no use. It only happens in thighs and vagina not any other area eventhough i get full body wax. Im avoiding sex with my bf becus of this reason the friction during sex irritates the skin even more. Im shy to tell him :( I dont let him touch me there until it settles