Okay so I’ve been talking to a guy for a few weeks now and I really like him, he’s super sweet, seems really genuine, has a good head on his shoulders which I’m not used to (I usually go for the assholes lol) but we hooked up last night and it seems like whenever I hook up with someone I NEED to know where it’s going. He seems to like me a lot too but I don’t wanna get too crazy and be like “sooo where is this going” but my anxiety is soo bad that I like neeed to know 🤦🏻‍♀️ we text/Snapchat everyday but I feel like I just need too much reassurance..I’ve been in some bad relationships which has messed with my head.

When is the right time to ask someone what they’re looking for ?? I don’t wanna scare him away and I’m trying to just go with the flow but it’s harddd for me. Helppp me not feel so crazy lol