Labor where are you??

Everyone going into labor and here I am at 37.5wks

I haven’t went into labor on my own in 4 years 😬 (I’m really nervous). I’m not losing my mucus plug yet like I did with my first 2 and I’m just in pain with no dilation. I’ve tried everything spicy food, yoga ball daily, castor oil, pineapple, and a few other things. Not sex tho 😒 and she is just like “yea I’m Ohk. I’ll make you a lil more uncomfortable since you’re trying to rush me 🤓”... any tips on how to go into labor or signs to be aware of that labor is near?