About to lose my shit

So my son is going thru a four month regression early. Yay! At least I think he is. He wakes up every hour to 1.5 hours fussing around. I woke up to him smiling on numerous occasions. I work from home because my husband lost his job a month ago. Before I was a stay at home mom. My husband got a side gig...or at least I thought and I told him that would be great because I don't make quite as much as he used to and it'll will allow for us to supplement. He would say, ill come home after I complete everything up there. Shouldn't be long.

Well he goes and works ALL day and doesn't help me take care of the baby during the day when I work. It would be fine if I could get some sleep at night but no. .while he is snoring, I'm trying to get bubs to go back to sleep. Yes I wait, yes I've tried ALL sorts of pacifiers. Im at my wits end and this is only the third day!

Any advice?!?!?!?!?!