2 days late...Should I test or

So I’m two days late cycle is usually 28-32 days. Im 31 years old with a 12yo and 11yo . Previously miscarried with twins 2years ago at 12 weeks. And have been trying for a year since. I’m slight bloated and have been on and off hot and having night sweats and extremely thirsty during the night. I’ve been having headaches with lower back pain and lower left pelvic pain here and there.

I’m scared to take a test to be disappointed. Me and my husband have been trying but this month we pulled back a lot to not stress ourselves. Should I take a test or continue to wait for AF?