Too much pressure for husband/first round of letrozole

I am so frustrated...we have been trying for two years this October and are on our first round of letrozole and things look great and now my husband can’t “finish” because it’s so much pressure. He wants a baby as bad as me, and wants to be involved and know when things are happening so he knows when it’s time. What can I do to help relax him and take the pressure off? Somebody pray for us please...