vaginal tear?

Question

so i’m 16 and i have a bf. i we live in different states and i saw him last week for the first time in over a year. sooo we had sex. he is big. but the fact that i am verrry small makes sex a lil uncomfortable. so usually i’m pretty sore after sex anyway. 
and i know im a terrible person but i also had sex with another guy.  both guys happened a couple times all within a week. 
the last couple days i’ve been really red and itchy down there. and dr google has got me thinkin maby there’s a tear?  it just doesn’t look normal. it’s just very uncomfortable and i have no one to go to about this. i’m supposed to go to a gyno soon but what do i do about the pain? 
i just need advice.
well. i got tested and i have chlamydia. i am going to tell both guys.

Accepted Answer

Red and itchy sounds more like a yeast infection, allergic reaction or some sort of STD. Are you having safe sex every single time with both partners? Using condoms? Lube? Or some other products you might be allergic too? I’d see a doctor. 
Also, you don’t want to hear this I’m sure but, don’t hurt people. Strive to be a good person - cheating is hurtful. If you want to have sex with other people- go for it- AFTER you break up.

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If you have unprotected sex, you are basically sleeping with every person that person has slept with unprotected too. 
If it’s itchy then it could be a UTI, yeast infection, or STD, and you need to go to a gynecologist to get looked at. 
drinking/being under the influence is NOT an excuse to be a shitty person. How would you feel if your boyfriend slept with another girl? 
You’re very young. But if you’re going to make adult choices you have to man up to the consequences. Don’t ruin your life with an STD. If you’re going to have sex have him wear a condom, and you should probably get on birth control too. You need to go to a gynecologist to be checked out once your sexually active anyway, but if you have symptoms of an STD or infection you need to go regardless.

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Could very well be std or complication/health of vagina impacted by having multiple unprotected partners. Just head to a clinic. Be responsible, wear a condom, don’t forget to pee and shower after sex, and moving forward I’d recommend being faithful

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your 16 no judgement but maybe you shouldn’t be having sex especially with multiple dudes

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To be honest if you can see that it’s red and it itches I don’t think that’s a tear at all. Could be a UTI or a yeast infection or an STI. Don’t forget to talk to the doctor about how many partners you have had and if it’s something serious to tell both no matter how complicated it could get .

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Girl it’s BV. Two guys or more (who cares) can throw you PH off.. introduce bacteria etc. You’ll need meds but it’s not necessarily an std and is very common.

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Definitely go see a doctor. You can go to a free STI clinic. In fact, I'd do that instead just because you can likely get in much quicker. There is a spray you can get that numbs the area. Look for it un the first aide aisle at the pharmacy. I forget what it's called, but it's a lil miracle in a can that they give you at the hosoital once you gave a baby to numb the area if you tore. Lastly, you're young and you will do things that you later regret, but just take the lesson from it so you don't repeat it. That is what life is; learning lessons. Most important is to protect your physical and mental health.

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What's done is done now. First off get to see a gynecologist to be safe and to check if  there is no other issues. Everyone makes mistakes, but hopefully this will be a learning experience for you. Don’t lie to both of these guys. Simply put yourself in their shoes you wouldn’t want that for yourself. I hope your alright and nothing serious is wrong with you. Please don’t drink alcohol. Wait enjoy your teenage years because those years are thus short. You will be an adult soon where you can booze and party. One day you gonna wish or want to be that young again.

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