Is it normal to ask these things???

I plan on going to a Dr. soon when my husband gets his work benefits and I have a lot of concerns about sex and orgasms and pain and things about my body but Idk if I go to a regular doctor for that and just say "hey this is happening in my sex life.." or do I go to an actual gynecologist?? Or will my primary doctor tell me to go to one??? I haven't seen a doctor in almost a decade and I was a young teen so I didn't have the concerns I have now sooo is it normal to discuss orgasms and my sex life with a primary doctor??