Naked girl pics on my bfs phone

UPDATE: I talked to him as soon as he woke up. He said he didn’t remember he had his exes pictures on there. When we met, he was still not over his ex and he was honest about that with me. He had a hard time letting go. We weren’t together until he was finally ready. But he deleted the pictures right away and then deleted them from the trash can. The other girls, he said they were girls from only fans. He paid 2 back in august and the most recent one, he just took a screenshot of the “preview”. Idk how else to call it. He didn’t pay for her pictures. I know, still doesn’t make it ok. But he deleted everything without hesitation. I told him I was gonna go and he said he can’t let me break up with him. But not in an aggressive way. He told me he wasn’t going to do that anymore. We ended up going to his church together for the first time. And a part of the message was about faithfulness. As he listened, he teared up a bit. Idk if I’m being naive but I think going to church today made him realize a lot. He even told me he wanted us to have a baby soon. I’m keeping my eyes way open though and he knows he has to work extra hard to earn my trust back.

OP:

I was looking for a picture that he had taken of us (he knew I was, so don’t think I was snooping through his phone) and I noticed that he had over 100 “hidden” pictures. I opened it and there was a bunch of pictures of naked girls. Some looked like models, others looked like normal chicks that sent him the pictures, one which was dated to last week. I kept scrolling and at the top I found pictures of him and his ex from when they were still together. He had told me he deleted everything. I didn’t say anything at the moment because I was in shock but I wish I would’ve. Now I’m laying next to him, almost 3am, unable to sleep because of it. How do I bring it up? We just had a conversation about him not being 100%honest about certain things and he said he was and that he wanted to marry me one day. But this doesn’t sound like a man that wants to marry me. I’m supposed to move in with him soon, we even bought a few things for the house yesterday and we’ve been looking at bedroom sets.

I’ve read some girls’ posts, saying they don’t mind if their man watches porn or looks at models but i think it’s never ok if they try to hide it,... right? Do men “that want to spend the rest of their life with you” do this? Am I overreacting? I really thought he was it but I guess most men are pigs? 🥺

Note: I don’t mind porn. That’s not a big deal to me. But pictures of girls he may or may not know? Yea that’s what’s bothering me and pictures of his ex too.