Wine and breastfeeding boyfriend said I drink too much

Not sure what topic to put this under but I have a question I’m sure I could ask a doctor or pediatrician but just asking what some of you do.

I asked my boyfriend if he could buy me wine tonight and he said “oh I’m actually just buying beer for myself, you have been drinking a lot and you’re breastfeeding”

I only have 1-2 glasses of wine maybe about twice a week IF that. I never get drunk because I have a baby. I just get a nice warm buzz. It wears off after about half an hour.

I also pump before hand and have a few bags in the freezer. I like to have a glass of wine to unwind a little because I stopped smoking weed and cigarettes and honestly I need a little something sometimes I don’t have help with the baby because he works and I’m home all day with him so a little something for myself is nice 🥺

I could go out and get it myself but since he said that I got upset and he started yelling at me about why I was upset, he got himself beer and I don’t want to leave the baby with him. I guess what I’m asking is how much wine a week is okay (I don’t drink every week either he just made me feel bad for asking) especially if I wait a couple hours after to breastfeed?