Hey guys. Ok so I spoken to my boss about a coworker that is bullying me. It has gotten out of hand to where I don’t transferred. So I told my boss and she asked me why and I told her why. So she coming up to talk to me with her boss to investigate the matter and take disciplinary actions if needed. I told her that I don’t want no one to lose their job. I just want to quietly transfer but she refused and said it’s policy if I feel uncomfortable about certain co workers. At first I didn’t wanna do it. But I began to think about my work at home. This coworker is very rude, passive aggressive, and always hostile to be around. So I decided to talk to her and tell her about her behavior. She turn things around on me telling me that I can not take criticism. I went home and thought about the conversation and then I was like hold on. She didn’t say anything about her actions or wanting to correct them. So my coworker decided to sit everyone down to try to talk it out. Instead. It just made things worse. One coworker was neutral and informed that the harassing coworker remarks are rude but she don’t take them personally because of her tough skin. That’s understand. The other co worker informed that didn’t see anything offensive being said but she is also the harassing co worker friend. I informed them that it was how I felt around her and about my feelings. They made me feel bad for having feeling or even expressing how I felt about her. The harassing coworker informed that she felt targeted by me and I informed that I did to. She went on to tell me that I am not built for my occupation. When I have been in the field for 5 years just like her and never met someone as rude as her. With that being said. It’s now like a bomb went off. Everyone feeling awkward because of me like I did something wrong and made me feel about it. Worse part is that I can’t transfer until someone has filled my position. That’ll take 90 days. I don’t know how to get through this without quitting. I need this job to take care of my kids.

Was I wrong for the transfer? Expressing my feelings.

Tell me your thoughts. Tips to get through this. Anything will help.