What is everyone doing as far as your significant other helping for night feedings?

We have been trying me going to bed at 8pm and then him putting the baby to bed at 11pm so I can get a head start on sleeping. I feel like this isn’t working out because our girl is either in her super fussy phase at that time and screaming so i cant sleep because I need to help her. Or some nights she just wants to be swaddled around 8 and in her bassinet, but when she is in the bassinet I sleep worse because i hear her every move and noise.

Tonight we are going to try everyone going to bed at 9 and then my husband will take the first night feeding.

What is everyone else doing that works for them?

I’m very lucky to have my husbands support, shout out to the single moms or moms doing it alone 🙏🏼