Is there a girls version of blue balls?

Ok so my boyfriend and I have not had sex.. im in my 20's, its a new relationship I just trying to wait a little longer.. but we have been fooling around.. he got me really close to an orgasm today and stopped.. i have been crampy every since.. and no my period isn't due it was last week...

Can girls get some version of blue balls if we don't orgasm.. I was so freaking close... and he stopped... masterbating hurts more 😭😭