I don’t even know if this is abuse...

This is a genuine question. Idk if my bf is verbally abusing me, if he’s cheating, doing drugs, or something else. His behavior is extremely hostile. Im getting scared.

For the past 4nights, starting from Monday, my bf has been mad. We start our morning great. He will text me fine wishing a good morning and we text throughout the day fine. Right around when he’s off from work, around 7pm, he becomes verbally aggressive. We don’t live with each other so all this is over the phone. It’s been the same pattern for 4 nights. At night he’s so aggressive and he wakes up so calm and acts like nothing happened.

1st night: I told him I was going to the gym around 7:45pm. Minutes later he says, “goodnight and enjoy your fucking workouts” he ignored me for the rest of the night.

2nd night: around 7 again, he starts acting serious. I ask if everything is ok. His response was “yes fuck let me rest I’m tired from work you annoy the shit out of me” so I told him I would go workout but I’d be here if he needed me and he continued to say, “go workout i don’t give a fuck if that makes you feel better than me go” he ignored me for the remaining of the night

3rd night: around 7, again, I randomly face timed my bf just to see where he was at since this is the time he tends to ignore me. I was on my way to target. He picks up and I see his mom the background and his dad sitting in the couch. My bf is eating and he shows me his dogs. So he sees me chest and asks “wtf are you wearing ?” It was a crop top. I told him I was in shorts and crop top because it was HOT. He tells me to stop calling him if I went out dressed like that. He ignored me for the rest of the night again.

4th night: around 7, my bf shows me pictures of his dinner. He tells me we should try the food at (___) so he asks me what I’m doing and I tell him I was going to hit the gym. I tried to spice the conversation up by saying “going to workout the booty baby” he starts cussing at me and leaves me voicemails screaming and telling me he wish he was right in front of my face so he can scream his guts out. He continues to say “go workout and do whatever it takes to make you feel better. All you care about are your looks” I lose it too and telll him to leave me alone. For the past nights he had been acting way too mean and has ignored me. He goes off saying the reason why he comes home tired and annoyed is because his job requires more brains than mine. (My bf didn’t even graduate HS) I literally left him on read and blocked him.

Unblocked him and this morning he literally just said “Goodmorning baby rise and shine my loves😍” like who does this! Who comes acting like nothing happens ...I have a feeling he does some sort of drugs at nights but idk please help