What would you do if...

Your man cheated on you with his assistant and started to engage in a full blown affair, days after you just gave birth to y’all first child via emergency c-section?

When you asked why he did it, he tries to pitch the confused, lonely, and hurt rhetoric. Tells you how sorry he is and etc.

Meanwhile before you found out about his dirt, he told the assistant that y’all were polygamists, and y’all wanted her to “join the family” and “bare children.” Now to say the least, the things he told her were lies and you feel like she should’ve known they were lies based on your interactions with her.

(Where did this random talk of polygamy come into play? Once upon a time he had multiple girlfriends at one point and it supposedly didn’t work out because of jealousy and etc. When he told you these things, you made it clear that you were not into that sort of lifestyle.)

Remix. The “assistant” just so happens to be your cousin’s best friend, so the “assistant” also knows your family members to a degree.

So the assistant was no real stranger in the equation and had spent adequate time in your home and with your older children and etc.

Also, you’re not working bc you’re on unpaid maternity leave. You have no real financial stability and he’s your only source of income until you go back to work. But bc of COVID, you don’t feel comfortable sending the baby to daycare and before you found out he cheated you wanted to stay home from work for some additional months.

Ok, boom, what would you do?

So, I’m listening. What would y’all do?