Im 16 and i was going out with a lad but we broke up just over a month ago. I met up with his cousin a few times and he told me that he was cheating on me with three girls and then he told me that he also took a video of us having sex and doing other things which i didnt know about. I continued meeting his cousin and someone else told me about the video so i txted my ex and he told me i was being childish and making things up just for an excuse to talk to him or to break him and his new girlfriend up (she is one of the girls he cheated on me with and he started going out with her the week we broke up) he told me there was no video and blocked me off of everything. I started getting closer with his cousin and met him a few more times and we also kissed a few times too but my friend told me that she found out he was telling people he was going to fuck me and there are also rumours that he raped a girl. Hes been trying to get closer to me and i only realised that he tries to get more touchy each time we meet. My friend then told me that him and the other person that told me about the video were only saying it to make a laugh out of me and that there was no video to begin will. I believed this and kept it to myself and just tried to move on from it and didnt worry ahout it anymore. Today another person told me about the video, one of my closest friends. She didnt know anything about it cuz i didnt tell her but someone told her so she told me. She told me that its not only being showed to people but now it is being sent around. My exes cousin told me he deleted the videos off of my exs phone and that they were gone but now i dont know what to believe. After meeting with his cousin a few times iv started to like him as more than a friend and i want to believe him but i dont know if i should considering his past and what im being told but i dont know if the rumours about his past are true or if the person who told me about what he said is true. My head is all over the place. Should i believe his cousin? Is there any video? Who is lying to me?

If anyone has any advise please comment on this or ask for my socials so j can tell you more detail and see what i can do because im struggling.