Sexless Marriage

Husband was incarcerated for 7 years.

Was like an awkward 15 year old boy the first time we had sex.

I thought surely things would get better.

I was wrong

We’ve been together almost 5 years and I’ve never used birth control. Have never needed it.

For 7 years masterbating was his routine.

Its much easier, faster, and efficient.

He wont give it up.

My soft, warm, slippery environment, cant compare to the rough, tight grip going 90 MPH.

Sex is awful. I don’t even know who he is intimately. We have never gotten “down and dirty” - if you will.

He doesn’t know what turns me on and I know he likes large curves on women, but thats it.

Ive brought up counseling, even though I dont think it would help.

Ive threatened to end the marriage because Im no spring chicken, but I’m FAR too young to just give up sex.

I want so much more for myself, and him too, honestly.

Advice? Anyone relate? Probably not.. 🙄...