Am I overreacting ?? Only fans ?
I need an outside point of view.....yesterday I was at my boyfriends for the weekend and keep in mind we’ve been dating for about 7 months now and he is honestly a pretty good boyfriend.
After a long day we finally got back home and he gets on the game and my phone is charging in the other room so I ask to play games on his phone (I never go through his phone or his messages) I honestly just wanted to play a game because i had nothing else to do. I also don’t have social media so I went on his Twitter and scrolled through his main feed. (I got bored after playing games and wanted to laugh).
As I’m scrolling I’m realizing there isn’t that many funny videos but instead there are a lot of ONLYFANS accounts/promo being retweeted by one of the people he was following. Which I didn’t really mind but then I see a post from a girl HE IS FOLLOWING who posted herself(half nude pic) and her ONLYFANS link. This is where I drew the line. I ask him about it and he says she is an ACTUAL friend he knows...
I was so distraught, this is someone who he knew and has never mentioned (he doesn’t have many friends & only follows a few people on Twitter). I usually make jokes about starting an ONLYFANS and he always has negative things to say but here he is following a “friend” who does only that. He claims that he followed her before she started doing that.
I am very easy going with his girl-friends and don’t hassle him over checking his phone or anything. I thought the least he would do is respect our relationship and not put himself in a position where he is exposed to his “girl-friends” like that. He then asked if I want him to unfollow her - I do not want to be the controlling crazy girlfriend and I won’t force anyone I date to do something like that. I feel that that shouldn’t be something that has to be said and he should’ve done that before I saw it. I left his house and haven’t spoken in a day.
Was I wrong? Or can you guys offer your perspective please? Thank you!
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